Women Don't Ask
Women Don't Ask
副标题: Negotiation and the Gender Divide
ISBN: 9780691089409
出版社: Princeton University Press
出版年: 2003-9-2
页数: 240
定价: USD 39.95
装帧: Hardcover
内容简介
When Linda Babcock asked why so many male graduate students were teaching their own courses and most female students were assigned as assistants, her dean said: "More men ask. The women just don't ask." It turns out that whether they want higher salaries or more help at home, women often find it hard to ask. Sometimes they don't know that change is possible--they don't know that they can ask. Sometimes they fear that asking may damage a relationship. And sometimes they don't ask because they've learned that society can react badly to women asserting their own needs and desires. By looking at the barriers holding women back and the social forces constraining them, "Women Don't Ask" shows women how to reframe their interactions and more accurately evaluate their opportunities. It teaches them how to ask for what they want in ways that feel comfortable and possible, taking into account the impact of asking on their relationships. And it teaches all of us how to recognize the ways in which our institutions, child-rearing practices, and unspoken assumptions perpetuate inequalities--inequalities that are not only fundamentally unfair but also inefficient and economically unsound. With women's progress toward full economic and social equality stalled, women's lives becoming increasingly complex, and the structures of businesses changing, the ability to negotiate is no longer a luxury but a necessity. Drawing on research in psychology, sociology, economics, and organizational behavior as well as dozens of interviews with men and women from all walks of life, "Women Don't Ask" is the first book to identify the dramatic difference between men and women in their propensity to negotiate for what they want. It tells women how to ask, and why they should.
作者简介
Linda Babcock is James M. Walton Professor of Economics at the H. John Heinz III School of Public Policy and Management of Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. She has also been a visiting professor at Harvard Business School, The Unicersity of Chicago Graduate School of Business, and the California Institute of Technology. A specialist in negotiation and dispute resolution, her research has appeared in the most prestigious economics, inductrial relations, and law journals.
Sara Laschever's work has been published by the New York Times, the New York Review of Books, and Vogue, among other publications. She was also the principal interviewer for Project Access, a landmark Harvard University srudy on women in science careers funded by the National Science Foundation. She lives in Concord, Mass.
目录
PREFACE: Why Negotiation, and Why Now? ix
INTRODUCTION: Women Don't Ask 1
CHAPTER ONE: Opportunity Doesn't Always Knock 17
CHAPTER TWO: A Price Higher than Rubies 41
CHAPTER THREE: Nice Girls Don't Ask 62
CHAPTER FOUR: Scaring the Boys 85
CHAPTER FIVE: Fear of Asking 112
CHAPTER SIX: Low Goals and Safe Targets 130
CHAPTER SEVEN: Just So Much and No More 148
CHAPTER EIGHT: The Female Advantage 164
EPILOGUE: Negotiating at Home 180
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS 187
NOTES 189
REFERENCES 201
INDEX 217